This experience was created to give grief a language, a structure, and a home inside of you.
Unapologetically ME!!
If you're here, it's not by accident.
Writing about myself feels both awkward and a bit scary. I'm putting my whole life out here in hopes that you will see me as I am, without judgment.
It’s really like holding a mirror to my journey and trying to put it's essence into words. Throughout the years of my reflections, I found new pieces of myself. Not pieces that I lost, but gifts I have been given. Gifts that came to me through the light that only grief could reveal to me.
So here we are. I’m sharing with you the raw, unfiltered, most authentic version of myself. The truest reflections of my journey, so that you can understand who I am without filters and shadows.
Honest. Grounded. Soul-level...
Life has been a little different for me.
Now, I'm not complaining, not at all. It's just been... unexpected, unscripted. The kind of path that teaches you more than you ever asked to learn. I've loved, I've lost, I've rebuilt. Sometimes with grace, Sometimes in complete messiness, but always with heart.
There were moments when I felt unstoppable and others when just getting out of bed was the victory. I've had moments when I lost sight of who I was… and somehow, piece by piece, I found myself again. Different...softer in some places, stronger in others.
My journey every raw, beautiful, and broken part of it is what led me to create Her-After. It wasn’t born from a business plan. It was born through me in the nights I couldn't sleep, in the moments when I was just trying to breathe and make it to the next one.
Pillowcases soaked in tears, silence that echoed louder than anything.
Her-After became the place where I stopped pretending to be okay and started turning my pain into purpose.
Now, I'm ready to invite you in and show you what I have created.
And maybe, to remind you that you’re not alone.
Please keep in mind that I have a Type A, slightly OCD personality.
Everything I create is intentional, thoughtfully structured, and designed by me. This isn’t a click-it-and-forget-it, mass-produced experience. What I share with you isn’t theory. It’s my lived experience, my sacred pain, divine guidance, and my personal resurrection. Learning how to design, format, write, and build each creation step-by-step. It’s all part of my healing. I never knew creative design would become such a deep passion, but it has. I’m not just building a brand I'm bringing my vision to life.
I know what I want it to feel like, look like, and sound like.
I want to make sure the delivery is spot-on for you.
That my words, my thoughts, and my expressions
are transformed perfectly. That the execution from my brain to your fingertips gives you exactly what’s in me.
Here’s a FUN FACT for You
I’m an over-thinker. A deep over-thinker.
Every seven days, I make a fifteen-hour drive home to Tennessee. For the first few trips, my car radio didn’t work so I did the whole drive in complete silence. Fifteen hours alone. Just me and my thoughts.
Can you imagine an over-thinker trapped in their own brain that long?
(Yeah, I almost drove myself nuts. 😂)
My husband finally got me a Bluetooth speaker so I could listen to something, literally anything. That’s when I started playing around with ChatGPT. Suddenly, I realized: everything that was stuck in my head… I could get out. I could talk, process, create. I could finally start designing all the things I’d been carrying inside me for so long. Now, I still do all the work, but I use my AI to help shape my thoughts, smooth the words, and bring my vision to life.
Somewhere between mile marker 200 and a gas station coffee stop,
it all comes alive.
That’s when me and my AI get to work.
It might not be traditional, but it’s real and it works.
(Honestly? My AI makes a great passenger. So we’re doing just fine.)
